phil longhurst (1953 - 2008)
I came to the art of Tai Chi some five years ago when my body was 68yrs old, well aware of its constant reminders of my mortality; now some 5yrs later, those reminders have been replaced by awareness that my body can do things never dreamed about in those distant days. This transformation is due in no small part to your contribution as one of the instructors at the Sussex Zhong Ding School.
Your gentle instruction, encouragement, constant smile and sense of humour helped me through those early days, when like so many beginners; you wonder how on earth people’s feet and hands can go in so many different directions at the same time.
Your transition to the other world was a bitter/sweet pill for me; sweet because you were now free of suffering, but bitter because the friendship that had grown closer during your illness had now gone. Thank you for the laughter and happy times we enjoyed together.
Phil my friend, whilst I miss your physical presence, your laughter, your welcoming smile and enthusiasm for life, I know it is not lost, for consciousness goes on in other realms, free from physical restraints.
So, enjoy your new experience’s Phil – We shall meet again, somewhere, some place THAT’S FOR SURE.
Ian
I first knew Phil around 1974ish when we both worked for Turbull Control Systems in Worthing. He was extremely well liked and highly respected then.
32 years on, when our paths crossed again, I found nothing had changed... One of the World's truly nice guys.
I am honored to have known you Phil.
May Your God Go With You.
Graham
It was with great shock and sadness that I learnt of the passing of Phil.
Although I had not seen him for a few years, I have fond memories of training together. I was always impressed by not only his eagerness to learn, but also his willness to share his skills and to promote the art.
In addition to being a dedicated martial artist, Phil was one of the worlds really great guys.
My sincerest thoughts are with his family.
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Terry-David Hayler
B.Sc(Hons)
When I came to UK the very first time, Phil invited me to his house to have the BBQ with his family. That was a nice day and from meeting Phil I felt that English people are very kind. When I came to UK the second time which was when I moved here from China, Phil had already had the stroke, and couldn`t speak at all except saying yes or no. I felt really sorry for him, things can be changed so much in such a short time. Then I went to visit Phil several times in his house or in hospital where he sometimes stayed, he still couldn't speak much, but I could tell he was getting better, I thought he would get better in the future. But..............It was a big shock to hear he passed away that morning. I understand he's been sufferring a lot for the last two years. Maybe he has found somewhere else better for him. I think everybody will remember his kindness.
Lily Lee
I first met Phil at Northbrook Barn, when I was helping to complete the building of the centre. I supplied Glen and Phil with tea and biscuits and Phil remarked one day that as I had now created a precedent, I should join them and learn Tai Chi, if only to keep the flow of biscuits going for Glen.
It wasn't long before I had two mentors, with Glen teaching me The Form and Phil The Straight Sword.
Nine years later, sadly, Phil has moved on, but I still feel his presence at the the Barn, reminding me to keep my back straight and smile because we are all supposed to be enjoying it.
For you, Phil, we will all keep on smiling.
